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in control· Creativity

Is Perfectionism Choking Your Creativity?

perfection chokes creativity quote by Katie M. Reid

I used to wear perfection like an honor cord at graduation (with a glossy golden sheen) until I realized it was choking my creativity.

There is not enough time in the day or fuel in the tank to demand perfection from myself or those around me. It’s perfectly impractical. A relentless motor and inner drive push me to perform flawlessly at breakneck speeds, but if I keep this pace, I’ll breakdown.

Being a writer, speaker, wife, and mother of five, requires creative contortions on a regular basis, but perfectionism stunts flexibility.

What is a recovering perfectionist to do?

We can’t just disconnect ourselves from our wiring, in fact, we shouldn’t. But we can learn healthier ways of using our strengths to our advantage and the betterment of others.

Let’s examine three ways that perfection clogs creativity:

  1. Distorted focus: When we strive to make something perfect, we may bypass the bigger purpose of creating something helpful. If I obsess about each word in this article, I lose focus on the more important point of helping the reader understand that perfection isn’t practical.
  2. Unrealistic demands: When we buy into the lie that perfection is attainable we work in an unhealthy manner, wasting precious time and energy. Embracing our humanness can be a gift to ourselves as we do the best we can instead of demanding we be the best at all costs.
  3. Preoccupation with self: When we believe that perfection is possible, we live with a “it’s all up to me” mentality. We try to control our environment in order to create the perfect conditions yet live in an frustrated state when those conditions don’t cooperate nor produce desired results.

Let’s evaluate three ways that excellence unleashes creativity:

  1. Sharp focus: When we keep the end goal in sight without giving equal attention to every minutia, we hone in on the greater goal without being distracted by non-essentials. As we focus our energy on doing something well, we clearly see possibilities and problems, instead of being paralyzed by perfection.
  2. Realistic Expectations: We only have twenty-four hours in a day. When we learn to manage our time instead of be a victim to it, we learn the value of limitations. Boundaries can be a beautiful thing for the recovering perfectionist, as we realize that deadlines, sleep, and days offs are integral components to a healthy work life. We work hard, but within the reasonable limits that are set before us.
  3. Team Approach: When we admit we cannot achieve perfection, we are more apt to invite others to help. When we work toward excellence there is more room for various approaches and ideas instead of the “it has to be this way” mentality. Cooperation is not as threatening when you admit you have gaps to be filled and strengths to be offered instead of the “I must be everything to all people” mindset.

Let’s not be afraid to embrace our humanness which houses both vulnerable limitations and incredible creativity.

Together our gaps + strengths can work together as we live a life of realistic excellence. Share on X

Whether you are an artist, a business owner, or a busy mom, perfection can clog your creativity and keep you from unleashing excellence. As we acknowledge that perfection does not rest on our shoulders, we are freed to work hard (from a place of peace) and invite others along for the ride.

*This post was first published on Arianna Huffington’s “Thrive Global.”

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  1. Lux G. says

    August 14, 2017 at 6:06 am

    I’m giving myself a little break too. It’s tiring to be a perfectionist actually.
    Great read!

    • Katie says

      August 25, 2017 at 11:07 am

      Hi Lux! Yes, so tiring. 😉

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