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in Made Like Martha· One Word

How My One Word for the Year Turned Into a Book

How my one word turned into a book daughter by Katie M. Reid

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I’m sure you’ve heard (and maybe even grown tired) of the One Word craze. I have friends who are lovers of the idea, some who are haters, and some who fall somewhere in between.

Since 2009, I have joined the ranks and chosen a word to focus on for the year. This whole idea is freeing for a “get it done” gal like me. I have a tendency to make so many resolutions that it’s ridiculous (probably because I’m a 1 on the Enneagram…always trying to improve myself and make things better). So selecting just one word to focus on is a relief!

Some years I’ve made art as a reminder of my word, or purchased a necklace to keep the word close, and sometimes I’ve forgotten the word in the midst of busy life. But this past year, my word ended up turning into a book.

My word was: Daughter.

Mother and daughters in front of pond by Charis Seed Media Photography

Photo Credit: Charis Seed Media & Photography

Yes, two of my five kids are darling daughters, but that’s not the main reason this word was chosen.

Let me back up a bit, to explain:

For as long as I can remember I’ve acted like a mother…maybe that comes with the territory of being a first born girl. From a young age, I strapped on an ultra-responsible mindset and tried to “oversee” and take care of others (even when they were doing just fine). I prided myself on being dependable (which can be a great quality) but God showed me there was some healing that needed to happen in my try-hard heart.

The way toward this healing was learning what it means to be a daughter of God and then walking out that reality.

Typically a mother nurtures. And a daughter receives.

But I had a receptivity deficiency.

For decades, I tried to earn my place instead of enjoying the place I already had.

As I explored what it meant to be a daughter, my One Word worked it’s way into my heart and into a book manuscript.

I began to see the difference between being a woman who strives to be enough and one who knows, in Christ, she already is.

I know lots of strong women—they are some of my dearest friends, but many of them, like me, have experienced difficulties living as a beloved daughter.

Being a daughter doesn't mean you are passive or weak—in fact it takes great strength to trust someone enough to receive from them. #MadeLikeMartha Share on X

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Taking a closer look at Biblical Martha, we see a woman who gets things done. I can relate! We also see two sides of Martha…one who struggled to receive and one who received better than most.

I can’t wait to tell you more about the connection between Martha and the joy of living as a daughter—without compromising your doer’s heart in the process.

My book, Made Like Martha: Good News for the Woman Who Gets Things Done, doesn’t come out just yet, but you can read the first chapter here and here. It is available for pre-order too.

Now, I’m not guaranteeing your word for the year will become a book, but it might!

As we focus on one theme (instead of ten resolutions we’ll probably quit after the first week of January) it begins to work its way into our heart. Even if our word just improves one interaction, or helps us feel more loved, or encourages someone else…I think it’s worth it.

Cheers to a fantastic year—living loved and giving love—whether you pick one word or not!

If you want to pick a word, here are a few simple steps to make the most of the process:

1. Pick a word for the year (or for this season).

2. Reflect on the word.

3. Create or purchase a piece of art to help you interact with the idea behind the word.

4. Walk out the word in a few bite-sized, manageable ways.

I’d love to hear what word you’ve chosen!

Here is a list of my one (or two) words from previous years:

2009: Trust

2010: Seek

2011: Celebrate

2012: Give Thanks

2013: Be Still

2014: Joy

2015: Arise & Build

2016: Listen

2017: Daughter

2018: I’ll tell you soon, stay tuned…

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  1. Leslie says

    January 5, 2018 at 3:04 pm

    Katie, I love that your one word became a book! For the first time this year, I choose a word – Hope. It makes me feel a lot lighter to have one thing to focus on working toward. : ) Loved your thoughts here! Blessings!

    • Katie says

      January 6, 2018 at 4:09 pm

      Thank you, Leslie. And “hope” is a great work! May 2018 be full of it (hope, that is ;-).

  2. Shannon M Popkin says

    January 5, 2018 at 7:05 pm

    Love this, Katie! I have a “try-hard” heart and receptivity deficiency, too. Can’t wait to see your first book-baby be born! 🙂

    • Katie says

      January 6, 2018 at 4:07 pm

      Thank you, my friend. #kindreds 😉

  3. Kate Motaung says

    January 5, 2018 at 9:36 pm

    Beautiful post, friend! What a blessing to see how God used this shift in your own mind and heart to soon bless others through your published work!

    • Katie says

      January 6, 2018 at 4:07 pm

      Thank you, friend. So excited about your upcoming book!

  4. Betsy de Cruz says

    January 8, 2018 at 12:35 am

    Katie, I’m excited about your upcoming book. It sounds like good news indeed. I loved your newsletter too, by the way, and will head over to its Instagram account to follow it today!

    Not sure if I’ll choose a word this year. Last year it was “Jesus,” and I may choose that word again. I’m going with Ann Voskamp’s plan of choosing one verb for each month. January is “embrace.” I’m embracing smallness, as in “Lord, help me be faithful to do the small things.”

    • Katie says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:00 pm

      Thank you, friend. That sounds like a good work to me. 😉 Hope you have a wonderful month as you “embrace.”

  5. Jenni Eastin says

    January 10, 2018 at 12:29 pm

    The tweet able quote gets me. Letting that soak in today. Powerful, Katie.

    • Katie says

      January 10, 2018 at 5:19 pm

      Hi Jenni- Thank you. Hope you’re having a great 2018 so far!

  6. Kathy Rae says

    January 13, 2018 at 4:55 pm

    My one word for 2018 is AWE – I want to be in awe of the Lord all year long, to be awed by Him over and over again. Then I will know how truly awesome is the God we serve, how powerful, magnificent… and then in whom shall I be afraid when I have lived a year of being in awe of the One greater than all my fears and doubts and situations? And He began awing me as soon as I chose the word in December so I know I will have an awesome testimony of His faithfulness at the end of the year!

    Seriously, my shower’s hot water stopped working. A plumber friend came over, did nothing to it but shake it around a little (because the entire thing needs replaced and he knows I can’t afford to get it fixed right now) and it started working. He told me he doesn’t know how my shower is working because IT SHOULDN’T BE. I told him it was the Lord. 🙂

    • Katie says

      January 15, 2018 at 5:52 pm

      Thank you for sharing your word, Kathy. May 2018 be full of AWE!

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