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in #TightlyWoundWoman· Letters to the Tightly Wound Woman

Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Listen Close, Listen Well

Dear Tightly Wound Woman Series by Katie M Reid

Hi Friend!

It’s a new year. Some things have passed and other things continue into the future.

I am delighted that Letters to the Tightly Wound Woman is one of the latter. Each month you’ll receive a love letter of sorts, especially written to those of us who are wound up tight and need fresh assurance that we are loved “as is”.

The first Tuesday of the month, right here, is where you’ll find your letter.

Let’s open our mail, shall we? Or click here and I’ll read it to you.

Dear Tightly Wound Woman:

I know that you want to be made well, but you’re scared of what that might entail.

You keep spinning your wheels when you hit ice. You grasp for traction. You exert an exorbitant amount of energy trying to gain ground, but you find yourself stuck.

As the new year begins, I have some news to share. It’s not new, really, but if you grasp this then you will be made new—all things new.

See, I am doing a new thing! Not it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” –Isaiah 43:19

Lean in daughter, and I will tell you the secret—the key to what you feel you’re missing:

Listen.

Listen close. Listen well.

This is what I’m asking you to do this year.

You want to be made well, right? So listen.

Linger…slow…savor.

Bend…stoop…bow.

Lean…pause…yield.

Stop and hear, before speeding ahead.

Keep step with My Spirit.

Stay close so that you can hear—my heartbeat, my love, my wisdom.

Listen close to Your Lord. Do you hear the whispers of My affections?

Listen well to those I’ve placed in your care. Do you hear their heartbeat, their questions, their fears, their joys?

Oh how I care for you and I listen well to You. Follow in My steps by listening to Me and to those that I give.

Learn to listen in 2016 by Katie M. Reid

You often rush, not really catching all the love, grace and help that I offer.

You often move on to the next thing in your mind, instead of really entering into the thing right in front of you—at your doorstep, at the bedside, ’round the table, by the fire.

Lean in love. For My Love leans into you. It’s all around.

Do you see it, feel it, hear it?

Listen.

Love,
Me

If you want to read the 12 letters from last year, you can do so below:

January:   Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Facing Fears
February: Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Unrealistic Expectations
March:     Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Deferred Hopes
April:       Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Waltzing with Wisdom
May:        Dear Tightly Wound Woman: RESToration
June:       Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Hope Still
July:        Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Sustaining Peace
August:   Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Known By Me
September: Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Pleasing Sacrifice
October: Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Being Restored and Renewed
November: Dear Tightly Wound Woman: The Overseer of Your Soul
December: Dear Tightly Wound Woman: Feeling Down

Sometimes I read these aloud over on Soundcloud.

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P.S. In case you didn’t catch it, my One Word for this year is LISTEN. “Keep step with the Spirit” is the tagline. I want to listen well this year and be made well through the love and wisdom of my Lord. I don’t want to run ahead nor lag behind as the Spirit leads.

Listen closely to wisdom and direct your heart to understanding.” -Proverbs 2:2

What’s your One Word?

Linking up with Kelly Balarie for the #RaRaLinkup on Purposeful Faith and Jennifer Dukes Lee for #TellHisStory.

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Comments

  1. Abby McDonald says

    January 5, 2016 at 9:45 am

    Love your one word for the New Year, Katie. You are right, we all need to slow down, listen and pay attention. It’s then that he fills us and awakens us to what’s important. I think my one word for this year is going to be “awake,” which goes along a similar theme. Happy New Year!

    • Katie says

      January 5, 2016 at 10:26 pm

      Ooo, great word Abby, love it!

  2. Tara says

    January 5, 2016 at 1:52 pm

    Leaning in and listening close.

    • Katie says

      January 5, 2016 at 10:25 pm

      🙂

  3. Betsy de Cruz says

    January 5, 2016 at 4:39 pm

    Beautiful encouragement, Katie. I want to listen, I like that Proverb about listening carefully to wisdom and directing our hearts to understanding. I’ve been reading the opening chapters of Proverbs and have felt so inspired to lean in close to hear His voice through His Word.

    My word for 2016 is WONDER!

    • Katie says

      January 5, 2016 at 10:25 pm

      What a great word you have chosen Betsy! 🙂

  4. Susan Shipe says

    January 6, 2016 at 11:41 am

    I think listening could be an old “art”. We are surrounded each day by a cacophony of noises that we fail to hear His still small voice. This year I want to hear the whispers so He doesn’t have to scream in my clogged ears! Great post – I read it AND listened!

    • Katie says

      January 6, 2016 at 11:28 pm

      Me too Susan, me too.

  5. June says

    January 6, 2016 at 7:21 pm

    Listen is a good word, Katie! We can all learn to listen better, not only to people, but to our God! I’m sure 2016 will bring some amazing lessons! Blessings!

    • Katie says

      January 6, 2016 at 11:28 pm

      Thank you for commenting June. God is already showing me the blessings in listening better, I’m sure that is much more to come. 🙂

  6. Lori Schumaker says

    January 7, 2016 at 2:27 pm

    Katie,
    I love this! My post was about being “aware” as I plunge into the New Year with goals and plans. I surely need to be listening to be aware 🙂
    Blessings and smiles,
    Lori

    • Katie says

      January 11, 2016 at 6:13 pm

      Hi Lori, Ooo “aware” is a good word!

  7. Dana Stowell Hoebeke says

    January 11, 2016 at 11:34 am

    I love this theme you have “tightly wound woman” as a former enslaved list-maker-perfectionist I sooo relate!
    My word for this year is Surrender…God has called me to write a bible study with that title and just as He always does, He’s teaching me everyday about surrendering to Him in every area.

    • Katie says

      January 11, 2016 at 6:15 pm

      Hi Dana: Glad I’m not alone in the struggle. There are trials and triumphs that come with being wired this way. May God continue to unwind us in His Presence and yield in surrender.

  8. Jacqueline says

    March 8, 2016 at 8:02 am

    I have just come across this and i have to say, its just what i needed, yes Be still and know I am God, has been with me at every crossroad etc, i find it hard to do that and yet it is the very thing i needed, how much we miss out on because we are so consumed. My word for this year is *enough*, i love these words God gives us, i have also been given surrender which scares me as i am independent and have had to stripped of so much to let go and trust God. Thank you for the message you brought it takes time and effort but i feel so blessed today and grateful ,
    warm regards
    Jacqueline xxxx

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