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in Guest Post· Listen Close

Listen Close, Listen Well: Are You Praying for Revelation? (Niki Hardy)

Listen Close, Listen Well series, graphic by Traci Little for Katie M. Reid

Let’s give a warm welcome to Niki as she shares a difficult decision her family faced as part of the Listen Close, Listen Well series. Niki and I connected through the #RaRaLinkup over on Kelly Balarie’s blog, purposefulfaith.com. Join us this Tuesday as we linkup encouragement and uplift Jesus’ Name.

Are You Praying for Revelation?

By Niki Hardy

Have you ever prayed for God to reveal His will for you? Prayed for Him to reveal it in a ridiculously obvious way that leaves no shadow of a doubt that He’s spoken? You know, write it in the sky, or in the froth of your cappuccino?

Unfortunately it doesn’t work like that does it? But that doesn’t seem to stop us praying that He’d PLEASE just SHOW US which way to go! Which job to take, which man to date or which outfit to wear (yes, I’ve prayed that prayer!).

Twelve years ago, my husband Al was in seminary in Oxford, England, and we were madly praying for revelation. We’d been asked to lead a church plant to Charlotte, North Carolina, where a group of people wanted a church with the same DNA as our vibrant London church, and pretty much everyone believed we were the ones to lead it.

Being the couple of deep, unwavering faith that we are, we immediately said, “Are you kidding? No way! Move our three kids across the pond and start a new life? You must be joking. No. Absolutely not.”

But we did agreed to pray about it.

I’d like to say that while in deep meditative prayer, the Lord spoke in a booming, Morgan Freeman-like, audible voice. In truth, I spent two weeks frozen in perpetual indecision, turning in circles like the spinning beach ball of doom I get when my computer jams. One moment I was sure that God wanted us to move, start a new life in the land of the free and resign ourselves to having kids that say “cookie” and “sidewalk” in a Southern drawl, instead of “biscuit” and “pavement”. Then, in the blink of an eye, I’d do a complete 180, and be sure that God’s call was to stay and evangelize London’s unchurched, and raise our kids to drink tea and watch rugby.

One morning the beach ball abruptly stopped spinning.

Standing in the chaos of my daughter’s classroom, I turned to my friend Stephanie, “We’re going,” I calmly announced.
She nodded unemotionally, “Yes, yes you are.”

And that was it. No fireworks. No fanfare. No massive revelation.
We went straight back to tying shoelaces and hanging up rucksacks, before I went home to talk to Al.

The only way I can describe it, is to call it a realization. I had prayed for a revelation, but what I got was a realization. A deep knowing, anchored right in my core that this was right, this was God’s plan, and this was what we would do.

Pray for revelation image by Niki Hardy

Twelve years later we’re those Brits in Charlotte leading the church that serves English cream tea on their annual retreat. We love it here and so do our kids. We’ve learned the rules of American football and how to order water in an American accent so the baristas at Starbucks understand us, and I think we’re here to stay.

It hasn’t all been smooth sailing. We’ve had a bumpy road that has included terribly painful times of leadership and financial crisis, my cancer and most recently, Al’s burnout.

Yet it’s been at these darkest times that this deep realization of God’s call has saved me.

I know that I know, that we were called here. That this is where God planted us. Many times, as I’ve been tempted to give up, head back to Blighty and the bosom of our family, this deep realization of God’s will has held me firm and strengthened me.

Are you praying for guidance, clarity or direction? Are you pleading with God to write it in the sky or send a good looking angel into your living room like He did for Mary (Luke 1:26)*? If you are, I feel your pain sweet sister.

I pray that the God who knows your heart, your dreams and your desires, gives you a deep realization of what His will is. I pray that you know, that you know, that you know. I pray that He writes it on your heart where it will not fade, so that when you enter stormy waters, it is there, anchoring you to His will.

*Biblically there is no evidence to confirm Gabriel’s dashing looks, but I’ve always imagine Him as the tall dark and handsome type.

Resting in Realization,

Niki

Has God given you a realization that surprised you? We’d love to hear about it in the comments.

Blogger Niki Hardy

Niki Hardy is a Brit living in Charlotte, NC. A self confessed fresh air junkie, dog lover and tea drinker she is happiest running trails with her dogs. As a cancer survivor with three teenagers, she loves to find humor and grace in the midst of life over on her blog, My Story My God, on Facebook and Twitter.

Read the rest of the Listen Close, Listen Well series below:

Not Ours to Give Away by Tiffany Parry

Lean In My Daughters by Kerrington Sweeney

Listening When It’s Loud by Teri Lynne Underwood

Fear and Doorknobs by Kim Osterholzer

What God Wants by Crystal Hall

Preparing a Place by Abby Banfield

The Luxury of Listening by Ashley Hales

His Grace Isn’t Just for Today by Abby McDonald

The God Dare by Kate Battistelli

Out of Your Comfort Zone by Tracey Casciano

Got Milk? God’s Got Answers! by Christy Mobley

On Hearing God and Being Surprised by Kristin Hill Taylor

Put On Your Listening Ears by Karina Allen

Letting Go in Order to “Go” by Martha Reid

It’s Over by Jami Amerine

When Listening Leads to Obeying by Kristine Brown

 

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  1. Dana says

    August 18, 2016 at 9:12 am

    Thank you for this post! Oh yes, I know this deep realization and being in denial about it for sure! Two big things really.
    1- my oldest son feels called to go to Hillsong college in Australia. We are homebodies. I am still in shock that he’s been accepted and going and some day soon in January I will be flying home without my baby. Crushes my mother’s heart, but at the same time I’ve prayed and asked God to lay confirmation of His will heavy on my heart so I could grow my faith and know peace. He is faithful and true, gentle and loving. God has answered my prayer and laid that realization on me hard that this is His will for my James.
    2- God has laid equally hard on my heart to write a bible study on surrender. It has become a recording of my life’s story, struggle, and surrender of my will to His. I just wanted to write nice blogs and journal as a creative outlet. He had other things in mind. I have no formal training, no college, and certainly never write anything of this seriousness of length. Yet each day He leads me to my keyboard and asks one thing of me: surrender… Everything. Then He gives me words to type and they flow quickly and clearly. There’s no struggle or difficulty, just passion and flowing of words.
    Sorry for the super long comment 🙂
    You inspired me, thanks 🙂

    • Katie says

      August 19, 2016 at 9:59 pm

      Such exciting things Dana- thank you for sharing how God is moving and working.

  2. Michelle says

    August 31, 2016 at 11:21 am

    I am currently praying for a revelation and Niki so beautifully points out that sometimes it is just that a realization that we know, He has taken out the guesswork and we do know. While that doesn’t make it all easy and requires a huge leap of faith, we know He has worked out the details and left us to just get at it. Sometimes I get held up in the space of waiting (for the revelation and the fanfare) when the realization is right there beside me and was waiting for me to take that first step in faith. Thank you for the insight!

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