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in Guest Post· Listen Close

Listen Close, Listen Well: Serving A Stranger (Lisa Appelo)

Listen Close, Listen Well series, graphic by Traci Little for Katie M. Reid

We’re back with the Listen Close, Listen Well Series. We took a break last month because of the Grounded Series, but now we’re back with a powerful story about listening from the lovely, Lisa Appelo.

Serving a Stranger

By: Lisa Appelo

My eyes fluttered open at the sound of my cell phone ringing. Reaching for it on the bedside table, I saw it was my oldest daughter.

Having launched several children from home, I’ve learned to take their calls when they call – whether I’m in the grocery line or tackling my to-do list or just nodding off to sleep. So when her call came in, I answered.

“Hey! What’s up?” I asked, trying to hide my sleepiness.

But this wasn’t a call to chat or catch up. She’d seen something and was torn about how to respond, whether to respond. She began to explain that she had been driving home from work and as she exited the interstate, she saw a woman next to the off-ramp holding up a cardboard sign. The woman looked to be in her mid-30s with a small frame and dyed blonde highlights.

Her sign indicated she had no job and needed money.

Should she help or not? Handing off money wasn’t always the wisest and was temporary at best. Driving the woman somewhere was too risky. And if she stopped, what was she getting herself into?

But she couldn’t ignore the nudge to help. Coming off the exit, she made a U-turn and pulled over. That’s when she called me but even as she talked, she formed a plan.

“I’ll park at Huddle House, Mom. It’s just across the street. And then skateboard over and invite her to breakfast.”

As we hung up, I had mixed sentiments. I was grateful for her compassionate heart, the way she saw need, but I also wanted her protected from the kind of messy hard that might be involved.

And, really, can problems that land someone on the roadside holding a cardboard sign untangle over one bought meal?

I moved on with my morning, starting breakfast and chores and schooling with my younger kids. About an hour later, my cell rang again.

This time she was bubbling over with an update.

After inviting the woman to Huddle House, they began to talk. The woman said she’d been holding her sign for 4 hours and had received $4.00. Seems she was from the area but found herself jobless and homeless.

Serve the person not solve the problem quote by Lisa Appelo for katiemreid.com

When they walked into Huddle House, the woman spotted her former boss. She flagged him down and as they began to catch up, the three now sat down for breakfast. My daughter listened as the woman poured out her story – a series of poor decisions, an accident that left her without a car and a breakup that left her without a home.

More conversation showed that the boss was a stable business owner who seemed truly involved with his employees. He updated the woman on the business, on various co-workers.

And then he began offering the woman some real help — he could hire her back; he would find her a ride to work. He admonished and counseled her. As they rose to go, he paid the entire breakfast bill and turning to my daughter, chidingly cautioned her to be careful with strangers.

Then the righteous will answer him, “Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?”

The King will reply, “I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.” -Matthew 25:37-40

When the Holy Spirit prompts, I can so often push back —

The need can look overwhelming.
My help can seem inadequate.
The nudge can feel risky.
The situation can look messy.

And what will we be getting ourselves into?

But God doesn’t ask us to solve the problem; he only asks us to serve the person.

Our job is simple — to cooperate with God. To see need and as we’re able, to meet need.

On this day, God had asked for a U-turn and an invitation to Huddle House. His Providential provision was already in place.

Thankful,

Lisa

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Lisa Appelo is a single mom to 7, young widow, author & crazy in love with Christ. She shares soul-deep encouragement for the adventure of faith at LisaAppelo.com. Find her family devotional Countdown to Christmas: Unwrap the Christmas Story with Your Family in 15 Days here or connect with her on Instagram.

Read the rest of the Listen Close, Listen Well Series:

Not Ours to Give Away by Tiffany Parry

Lean In My Daughters by Kerrington Sweeney

Listening When It’s Loud by Teri Lynne Underwood

Fear and Doorknobs by Kim Osterholzer

What God Wants by Crystal Hall

Preparing a Place by Abby Banfield

The Luxury of Listening by Ashley Hales

His Grace Isn’t Just for Today by Abby McDonald

The God Dare by Kate Battistelli

Out of Your Comfort Zone by Tracey Casciano

Got Milk? God’s Got Answers! by Christy Mobley

On Hearing God and Being Surprised by Kristin Hill Taylor

Put On Your Listening Ears by Karina Allen

Letting Go in Order to “Go” by Martha Reid

It is Over! by Jami Amerine

When Listening Leads to Obeying by Kristine Brown

Are You Praying for Revelation? by Niki Hardy

Hearing Crickets When You Pray? by Anne Watson

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  1. bethany mcilrath says

    November 10, 2016 at 8:38 am

    How have I missed this series?! Great topic. Thanks, Katie!

    Lisa, I love this story and your daughter’s heart. Sometimes the nudge is not to respond, and sometimes it is to step up. Praising the Lord He is always with us and allows us to be part of His work like this. Such an amazing story : ) Thanks for sharing!

    • Lisa Appelo says

      November 10, 2016 at 1:39 pm

      True, Bethany…as a mom, too, I worry about my kids taking these *risks.* But God already had His plan at work!

  2. Betsy de Cruz says

    November 10, 2016 at 9:07 am

    What a beautiful story. This is so encouraging.Sometimes needs seem overwhelming, but really all we have to do is play one part in God’s plan. So glad your daughter responded like this!

    • Lisa Appelo says

      November 10, 2016 at 1:40 pm

      I’m always learning, Betsy and this was a timely lesson.

  3. Lauren Gaskill says

    November 10, 2016 at 10:19 am

    “God doesn’t ask us to solve the problem; he only asks us to serve the person.” Amen, amen, amen, sweet friend. What a beautiful truth. Thank you for this reminder today. <3

    • Lisa Appelo says

      November 10, 2016 at 1:41 pm

      Yes, I need to know this when following God to meet need looks to complicated! Thanks Lauren!

  4. Martha Clark says

    November 10, 2016 at 1:51 pm

    Thank you Rachel–a warm
    And vibrant spirit has always exuded from your presence! No one could deny breakfast with you. My eyes are full of tears of joy how God is so able and orchestrating circumstances for our GOOD and others! Lord help me have ears to hear and a heart to act on what you ask me to do today!

    • Lisa Appelo says

      November 12, 2016 at 8:34 am

      The lessons our kids teach us, Martha. Xo

  5. Paris Renae says

    November 10, 2016 at 4:51 pm

    Oh how we underestimate our God – “His providential provision was already in place” – we tend to make Him small and the problem big, but with Him it’s the opposite.

    • Lisa Appelo says

      November 12, 2016 at 8:35 am

      Yes, yes,yes. This is much, Paris Renae.

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